Monday, December 6, 2010

Journal 10

I have found that my conflict style leans strongly toward avoidance. I am a big avoider, it's my favorite way to deal with a conflict, and I am pretty okay with that. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, make excuses for them, and generally wiggle my way out of needing to confront them about things. I have generally found that starting up fights over little things aren't worth it. So I try to be easy going. Sometimes this means that I wait until little things get big enough to be worth confrontation, which isn't really a good thing. When it does come to confrontation, I don't think I'm too bad at it. However, I've found that for the most part, avoiding works for me and makes my life a lot easier.

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